The first step in choosing any piece of jewelry is deciding what kind of look you want. Do you prefer delicate jewelry with gemstones? Or maybe a bolder statement piece with silver charms hanging off it? Or perhaps something more masculine like a chunky cuban link chain? There are so many different options out there that should help inspire your final decision...

You don't need to have been married for 30 years with two kids and four grandkids to benefit from jewelry! If this is your first Valentine's Day ever together, make sure there's something special waiting on your loved one when he gets home this evening! It doesn't have to be expensive—just thoughtful and meaningful. Whatever gift would mean the most to him: maybe some flowers? Or maybe just some chocolate? Something else entirely?

When choosing jewelry, think about how you want to use it. Your jewelry can express your personality, showcase your sense of style and tie into your interests. For example, if you're a nature lover who enjoys hiking in the woods with your friends, then an owl necklace might be perfect for you. If you like wearing bright colors and bold patterns, then a chunky bracelet with lots of different colored beads would be ideal.

When deciding on a new piece of jewelry, it’s important to take note of how you’re already wearing your accessories. Are there certain types of pieces that you only wear to work? Do you dress up for special events? Are there any items that are always in rotation? Having an idea of what kind of clothing styles and occasions will help inform the type of jewelry that will be most useful for your lifestyle, keeping it from being just another accessory that doesn’t get worn much at all.

Before you go out and buy a new piece of jewelry, take a look at what you already own. If your ring finger on your left hand is bare, it might be time to add another ring to your collection. If you have accessorized with a statement necklace or two in the past but haven't worn them as much lately, consider bringing them back into rotation. Jewelry should be versatile and serve multiple purposes: it can work with both your formal clothes and casual attire, so long as they don't clash with either style.

If this sounds like too much effort (or if you're just starting out), consider building up an arsenal of simple pieces that work well together. For example, earrings are easy to match with other accessories—they can be worn alone or paired nicely with necklaces or bracelets for a stylish look.